"My parents got divorced when I was eight so it's just me, my mom, and my sister. How do I deal with their fighting? I just hate it when they fight. How do I tell them to stop without getting them to get mad at me? Please don't mention my name on anything."
I am sorry that your family is struggling. I will answer gladly answer your questions and I would also like to encourage you ... maybe even give you some insight and ideas.
Let's break this down.